Something's been bothering me. This past June, I was diagnosed with breast cancer. Me and the other one in eight women around me. But that’s not what’s been bothering me, although it certainly has been a bother (I’ll be fine, thank God). When friends and family started to find out, I heard from them through phone calls, texts, emails, notes on delivered flowers, cards sent in the mail and when they came to drop off food. I heard what they thought about me — what theyreallytho